By Mary Quast
Having restricted movement will
intensify the senses and make for very sensual loving. Handcuffs are an
important accessory for a cop costume but also can be a lot of fun in the
bedroom. Keep in mind, handcuffs used in sex play are made to be comfortable
and safe so don’t borrow your buddy’s police issue. Silk scarves that are worn
on a daily basis can have a dual meaning when used during sexual play. Imagine
sitting at dinner and caressing the silk scarf around your neck as your partner
watches you, anticipating how it will be used after dessert.
Communication is important in
every relationship. Openly talk to your partner if you are thinking of “trying
something new”. Don’t freak them out by whipping out handcuffs in the middle of
the moment. Use handcuffs specifically designed for bedroom play. Visit your
local adult toy store together to pick out a nice pair and feel free to ask
questions to the trained/knowledgeable staff. Only use handcuffs with someone
you completely trust. If you decide to any kind of role playing situation,
consider designating a safe word in advance to be used when/if the situation
becomes too uncomfortable.
Silk scarves are a fun and sexy
substitute to handcuffs but the same advice applies. Being physically
restrained can be a very deep and passionate experience but always use safety
and open communication.
Mary Quast is the author of
Handcuffs & Silk, a 1Night Stand story.
BLURB:
Stephanie "Stiff"
Johnson is a tough Las Vegas cop who many men find too intimidating to date.
Steph begins to wonder if something is wrong with her so she turns to Madame
Eve to find a man who could be the yin to her yang, even if it's just for one
night.
Hunter Mason left behind years
of living as a sub to a female Domme in New York. Upon return to his hometown,
he questions whether he wants to continue with the "lifestyle" or
find something different. Turning to 1 Night Stand, he hopes to sample his
options.
A simple one-night stand opens
a whole new sensuous world to both.
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