Bad Girls Deserve a Spanking. Or, the Lovely Red Ass

The Playground is available HERE

By Sascha Illyvich

The art of corporal punishment more commonly known as spanking is one that many enthusiasts enjoy.  Nothing sexier than a red hot ass where the nerves have opened up and blood has rushed to the area to make someone feel the fun sting during sexual play.

The ass is mostly muscle, so it's harder to hurt than other body parts. It's also one of the strongest muscles in the human body.  It's also one of the most talked about features of the human body.  No man or woman can resist a hot, well-muscled or tight ass on the partner of their choosing.  With all the nerve endings in the ass and around the anus in particular, it's no wonder spanking fetishes are popular in sexual culture.

The fetish itself is versatile.  It can be involved in role play.  The priest and naughty nun fetish often involves discipline as does the school marm and student.  Or principal and teacher.  What's taboo to one person is often highly sexualized to another.

Some psychiatrists suggest that love of spanking stems from childhood issues and for many, that may be true.  Others simply find the fetish to be an extreme turn-on.  It's gender neutral, which means both men and women can get something out of it.  For women, the feeling of helplessness and submission makes her wet, because it stimulates those nerve endings.  The anticipation of sex from contact of one of her erogenous zones heightens the sensation for her.

For men, turning a sweet, hot bottom pink is more about control and dominance in addition to the above mentioned anticipation of getting laid. 

The bottom is a prime erogenous zone; however, unlike other zones such as the breasts and back of the neck, the sexual arousal nerves in the bottom are buried in a layer of fat and require harder stimulation to trigger them. Spanking is an obvious choice here, especially once blood has gathered near the genitals.  A woman clenches her legs together or squirms, often rubbing her clitoris against the knee or bench she may be bent over during the spanking, adding to the stimulation she receives. Siddella from Menage Bound knew this joy at one point.  As did Shelly from The Playground, my first and third Decadent 1NS stories.

When she's given permission to feel sexual, spanking reinforces those feelings. 

One of the best spots to swat an ass on either gender is where the ass cheek and thigh meet, often known as the sweet spot.  It's near enough the genitals to keep blood flowing there as the skin warms and stimulate that mental organ known as the brain. 

Not much spanking going on in MenageBound, but sure as hell there's kink!  

Inspiration and Crazy Adventures

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By Sascha Illyvich

When I started my next submission for Decadent Publishing's 1NS line, currently titled "Dark Knight" I knew I needed to work in the obvious elements of a good story, plus the elements of the line to get them to bite. 

The inspiration for my hopeful came from the same place I get all my creative story ideas from.  Yes, personal experience plays a part in all of this.  In my hopeful for Decadent, I modeled the character after all my 1NS heroines, choosing to use someone close to me.  She'll remain nameless but let's say she is well aware of all the hot sex in the story, even going so far as to get the good parts from me and share them with a group of people she KNOWS will buy this story once Decadent contracts it.

You can see my ego knows no bounds, right?

My previous 1NS book Menage Bound, Siddella and Jason actually are based on people too but to be honest, Jason sort of snuck in.  I won't say where I know this swarthy Latino from or what cigars he smokes, but I can say that I pumped him up in size, stature and dominance so the real Jason (if that was his name) and the story Jason (that IS his real name) aren't all that easy to compare.

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All of the stories I've crafted for Decadent have a similar theme and for once it's NOT redemption.  While that does play a part in The Playground it's not the overall theme.  Trust is. 

In all three stories a choice must be made.  Trust myself to try a new thing, or trust that my life will continue to suck if I go about things the way I have been. I've been fascinated by human kind ever since coming to terms with the recent fact that I apparently am not superman, and watching, putting these experiences into stories helps me draw some sort of closure on life, as I'm sure it helps others to understand me . It also serves for the fantasy background of so many readers looking for an escape. 

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Siddella had to let go and trust Jason and Chase to deliver what they promised they could.  Livia had to trust herself to grow with the help of Bruce, in Surrender to Love.  And of course we've talked about Devon and Shelly's trust issues.

So, dear reader, I ask you this:  Will you trust me to provide you with a brief, yet eloquently steamy love story published by the fine folks at Decadent Publishing?  Each word has been selected for its use in choice cuts of the story, with loving care, hand crafted from me to you via our seamless delivery system?

Menage Bound - When three is NOT a crowd!

by Sascha Illyvich

I'm guessing the fabulous folks at Decadent do not want me disclosing my sexperiences, but I must mention them in brief as this draws readers and works on people's natural curiosity about the sexual nature of erotic authors.

The fact is, the encounters an author has, make for a fuller experience in writing, provided the author has had numerous adventures. If not, the author is left living vicariously through pornography, erotica, other means. (Like me) Being the Bad Boy of Romance, this actually works in my favor, as it justifies my flirtation, my drinking and premium cigar smoking all while providing an illusion, an image of something readers expect.

I've been talking with other authors about the unspoken author/reader contract and how upon publication, if the author platform does not define the relationship, the experience a reader gets from an author's book, then the reader defines it. This is not a bad thing, but it's not the best for attracting the most attention for the group of readers your book is targeted to. If however, every blog post, every interaction, tweet, facebook status, and book all say the same thing, then the AUTHOR is defining that contract.

In my world, my books tend to be about trust on a deeper level. And in my latest 1Night Stand, Menage Bound, Siddella must extend trust in the 1NS service that she can have a fantasy played out. Two hunky men, both dominant, both not fighting OVER her but instead, working well within the boundaries she sets. Jason and Chase must trust the same service, then extend said trust to Siddella for her acceptance that two men can have a healthy long term sexual relationship that involves pushing boundaries and growth.

 Menage Bound excerpt:

“Something the matter, Siddella? You can back out at any time.”

The tenderness came from Chase.

Back out? Hell no! Her body thrummed with so much sexual energy she could probably power the Vegas Strip for at least a week. She offered an innocent smile. “I’m good. Let’s do this.” Batting her eyelashes, she cocked her head to the side.

Jason smirked. “Do you want a safe word?”

The smart move would be to say yes. Somehow, she thought it wouldn’t be needed. But—

“Unlike my partner, I’m not asking. I’m giving you one. Wine bottle. If things get too heavy, you simply say wine bottle.” Chase didn’t look back at her.

His air of cool made her knees weak. “Wine bottle. Okay.” At least they were thinking of her safety. Yeah, they possessed the traits of true dominant males who valued her existence enough to give her a safe word. She smiled at the gesture.

The elevator dinged. Siddella started forward, but fingers gripping her shoulder stopped her. She looked back at Jason.

His eyes narrowed.

She let out a sigh. “Please, after you.”

Jason stepped into the elevator, followed by Chase. Then they turned and, with the slightest of movements, acknowledged Siddella, giving her permission to enter.

The material of her shirt began irritating her already hard nipples. Anticipation drove her wild. What would these men do to her?

What would start things off?

A few more moments would pass before she found out.